Online Counselling and Relationship Therapy with Donna
Counselling with Donna Hutchinson
Registered Clinical Counsellor
EMDR Practitioner
Trauma Informed Yoga Instructor
Registered Personal Trainer/Fitness Instructor
Life can sometimes darken our hearts and make things feel difficult or even unsurmountable. These struggles are real, and at times it may feel like there is no way out.
However, there are tools and resources that can help you smile from your heart once more or maybe for the first time.
Donna offers online services only, including Registered Clinical Counselling, Relationship Counselling and EMDR
There are any number of life circumstances that can lead to experiencing mental health challenges.
A cloud may cover our hearts, sending us into a deep fog where symptoms like anxiety and depression can take hold. Some begin before we are even able to speak and while others emerge throughout the lifespan.
These struggles are real, and at times it may feel as though there is no way out.
However, there are tools and resources to help you smile from your heart once more or maybe for the first time. I believe you are capable of change and I’m here to assist you on your path towards finding your best self.
Common counselling concerns, focuses & clients I love supporting:
Life Transitions
Anxiety, Panic Attacks & Phobias
Depression
Self Worth & Self Esteem
Trauma and PTSD
Body Image
Disordered Eating
Sexual & Gender Discovery & Identit
Inner Critics
Grief & Loss
Self harm and/or suicidal ideation
Childhood Trauma, Abuse & Neglect
Relational Challenges (past & present)
Counselling for Personal Growth
I specialize in working with people who have suffered trauma or who find themselves amid a life transition. I believe anxiety and depression can be symptoms of trauma, along with low self-worth and self-esteem. As you might already know through your own experiences, trauma responses can show up in many areas of life that can inadvertently affect our relationships - not only with others but with ourselves as well.
A Bit About Me as A Counsellor
Over thirty years ago, I began a career in the fitness industry and was fortunate to have worked in many different sectors, culminating in owning a fitness and yoga studio with my wife. I became a Master Trainer of fitness leaders, and this role fulfilled my desire and passion for teaching and training others. As a teacher, I encountered many students who thought they couldn’t learn, weren’t smart enough, good enough or had a teacher or even a loved one tell them they didn’t have what it took to become something they wanted to be.
As a result, many of these students believed and internalized these negative beliefs and over the years, the notion of “not good enough” (for example) felt like it became a part of who they were, corroding any inkling of possibility they could be anything else. Their inner critics and constant negative self-talk plummeted their self-esteem and self-worth so low it sometimes triggered addictive or self-destructive behaviours. Students would tell me how confused they felt, and that a part of them wanted to try hard and do well, while another part of them was working overtime to sabotage their efforts with chronic procrastination they could not seem to overcome. Feeling pulled in two directions, these students often struggled to learn.
But what I noticed is when I communicated my genuine belief in them, tailored the learning to meet their needs and style, helped them change their mindset around learning from can’t to can, from an evaluative process to one of growth and from self-criticism to self-fulfillment, they flourished.
I don’t see peoples’ limitations; I see only potential. I believe that with the right teacher, a tailored approach to learning, and a growth mindset, many things are possible.
My Approach to Counselling
Now as a counsellor, I take the same approach with my clients. I feel as though I have the perfect trifecta of tools, resources, and skills along with decades of lived life experience to offer to you. Additionally, with my background in health, fitness and nutrition, we can work together in a way that addresses not only your mental health but your physical health as well, if you choose.
My philosophy is based on the belief that you are the expert in your own life and truly know what is best for you. You came equipped with all you need to thrive in this life. Counselling can help you to uncover what is already there, especially when you hit inevitable bumps in life. Healing comes from within, when we are in connection with our selves. Being seen and heard by a caring person can help to renew that connection. Therapy is a collaboration.
It would be my honour to collaborate with you to get your mental health back on track.
I hold a Master of Education in Counselling Psychology from Simon Fraser University. I welcome diverse clients of all ages, cultures, genders, sexual orientations and abilities.
COUNSELLING APPROACH
My integrative and client-specific approach to counselling includes the following education and approaches:
COUNSELLING FEES
50 min session: $170
80 min session: $270
- suggested for EMDR-
50 min relationship session: $185
80 min relationship session: $295
50 min sliding scale sessions:
$110 - $160
- please inquire for availability -
We accept e-transfer and cheques
In efforts to keep our overall rates lower, we also offer the option to pay by credit card with a 2.4% processing fee
More Fun Facts About the Person Behind the Counsellor…
I am obsessed with pickleball, have 3 small dogs and love a good adventure!
I have authored two books and developed over a dozen fitness resource manuals and have presented at fitness, health, and wellness conferences all over the world, and was on the board of directors for the BC Recreation and Parks Association. I was also the first Canadian Woman to be part of the advisory board for the American Council on Exercise.
More About the Types of Counselling I Offer
I have many tools and resources that can be used during our sessions depending on what you need and want from our time together. If you are working through trauma, I have received specialized training in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy. Whether the experience of your trauma is complex (meaning it has been going on for a long time) or due to a single event, EMDR is an evidenced-based practice (lots of clinical studies supporting its effectiveness) and an effective way of helping you integrate and move forward in your life and past the trauma.
I also use Internal Family System Therapy developed by Richard Swartz. This therapy looks at specific parts of the self (sub-personalities) and allows you to get to know these different parts in a way that helps you understand for example why an inner critique part of you has such a loud voice that you cannot seem to get it out of your head, or why a part of you seems to make you do a particular behavior which you do not actually want to do.
For example, you might want to lose weight and commit to eating healthy only to be taken over by a part of you that sends you bingeing for everything and anything in the fridge, sabotaging your efforts leaving you confused as to why you continue to engage in this cycle. You might even experience warring parts where one voice says one thing only to be fought by another voice creating conflict and a polarity of your internal family system.
More common types of therapy like Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) challenges thought patterns while Emotion Focussed Therapy (EFT) has a spotlight on your emotional life and Narrative Therapy, (NT) on the stories we tell ourselves about our life. While this may all sound very technical, what you need to know is that you get to choose the direction we will take. Anything that is offered in session for you to try will be explained in detail and you get to choose if you want to try something or not. You will always be in the driver’s seat and in control of where the session goes.
Connect with Donna for Counselling
To learn more about Donna’s approach to counselling, ask questions about how she might be able to support you, and schedule your first session, please book a 15 minute virtual consultation below.
If you do not see a time available that works for you, or have any further questions, please contact Donna via the form below, and share what you’re looking for support with!